Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life.
I really enjoy having fun and just laughing! Laughing is therapeutic and good for the soul. I have been married for twenty-five years and I am a mother of three beautiful children: Angel, Joshua, Zoe and have a dog named, “Duke” that is like one of my babies. I wish I can say that all my life I had that overflow of laughter and joy. Well, my upbringing was a rough one and not a fun one, to say the least. My outlook on life was very negative and dark. I endured abuse, was rejected, a people pleaser and kept looking in all the wrong places for validation and approval. Everywhere I searched I would pick up another scar that added to the ones I already endured, and it validated what I was told growing up.
I spent the majority of my life searching in all the wrong places to fill the holes. I would cave into fears, became addicted to affirmations, whether it meant to lower my own standards. Never one to believe in myself and allowed others to tell me who I was. I used different things to numb the pain but at the end of the day, I still was left feeling empty.
Many years went by where I allowed these things to rule my life and became tired of being that hamster in a cage, going nowhere. Zig Ziglar says, “If you aim at nothing, you will hit it every time.” This is when I had my encounter with God. I began to aim to seek his approval, acceptance, and validation and this is when those feelings began to dissipate.
So, I have answered the “CALL” and said “YES” use me to help those who are hopeless and broken as I was. This is where my joy began to bubble up inside of me with all the excitement of answering the CALL! I observe and watch how there are many of ME’s out there, that are wanting to stop spinning in that same cycle but until you get face where you truly are at and continue to aim at nothing, you will keep hitting it every time!
MY PROFESSIONAL BACKGROUND
I am a Life Coach, gifted in the area of public speaking and deliver a humorous yet, direct message utilizing effective illustrations and personal testimony. I enjoy educating people with the tools they need and creating Developmental Workshops. I have a Diploma in Biblical Counseling with Marriages and Families and Bachelor’s of Science in Psychology with Life Coaching. I have created life coaching programs to help individuals like you. I teach and coach women with their needs. Help guide relationships with their goals and challenges and discuss those hard topics. I’ve helped many clients break through the obstacles that seem to be holding them back in their life. Life’s too short to be unhappy, unsure, or unfulfilled.
Let me help you learn and develop better ways to handle the issues that are standing in the way of your goals.